i dunno since when did i acquire the quirk of being objectionable to anybody having negative emotions to another but i just realized i have it. that makes me one too since im upset with them.
the rationale i give for being upset is that we are so ignorant to how our emotions, thoughts and beliefs tick that we become upset unnecessarily. i make one important assumption. that is that the real truth or at least a certain accurate interpretation of reality would remove all these emotional baggage from anyone who grasp it. We no longer react to anything negatively because we have seen what they really are and what happened are mostly what it is meant to be. and perhaps i would understand the real root and nature of all the sins such as anger, jealousy, greed...
my unhappiness is the general unwillingness to go on this search to liberate oneself of this burden at all. so the pain that they suffer they would always bring it around and pass it on to someone else. this vicious cycle just adds more suffering globally. at least this point i understand. that we are not isolated and we are affected by those around us so we have to help ourselves to stop spreading the suffering and then help them stop theirs. that is my shallow understanding of the buddhist stand point that there is no seperation between you and i.
so why am i unhappy? is it because i think others don't appreciate my endeavor? i guess so. more so than they are going to spread the unhappiness. i think i might just have a pride issue here. a long time ago i wanted to be a man above most in terms of wisdom and knowledge and this is ego driven because of my own inferiority complex. i soon found that it is really hard but it is still worth pursuing since it liberates myself. but i am always caught up with the debate as to what is the wise way of spending your life.
i obviously think that the analyzed life is the one to break free of these chains but that means i am forever stuck in my own thoughts while others who arent even trying at all lead much better life than me. am i the foolish one who refused to just live a plain life with all my imperfect understanding of ourselves, nature, our psychology and many things that we ought to understand before we can see the world as it is that is not going to cause suffering to myself?
how can we possibly gain wisdom without analyzing the very event that is going on in front of us? am i wrong to want to analyze that much? am i the dense one that desperately need someone that i think is foolish to help me out of the well? am i too proud now that i'm slightly awakened to the truth that i think everyone is behind me when in fact i might still be the last in class.
Wednesday 16 November 2011
Saturday 6 August 2011
on project of mass deception
what if... we were able to create a virtual reality that takes you into a world where you perceive yourself to be "plugged" into device like in the matrix and you enter that world by waking up.
would you cease to believe that the previous world you were in isn't real? we think we know that this world isn't real because we saw the construction of that machine and perceive our entrance into that world, BUT we could very well be dreaming about the creation of that machine and coincidentally waking up as we stepped into that machine. if the virtual reality offers no way to tell whether we are in a VR or not, how do we know it is not the case that I proposed previously?
this evil machine is theoretically possible. note that it is a lot more powerful with the matrix machine scene than without the transition between worlds. If the virtual world started abruptedly with the memory of you stepping into the machine, you would probably assume this is the VR world because you stepped into the machine with a certain expectation an assumption for the next world you see to be false, yet when the starting scene is a scene that questions your assumption, would that shake your sense of reality greatly? i have to point out in the previous case where your assumptions weren't challenge, it is equally likely you woked up in the real world just as you stepped into that VR machine, but this coincidence is not considered at all or seriously when there is no evidence how you went into the other world.
the matrix machine in the VR world disguising itself as a means to go into the real world might be just the key to drive anyone who are determined to keep track of what is real insane.
would you cease to believe that the previous world you were in isn't real? we think we know that this world isn't real because we saw the construction of that machine and perceive our entrance into that world, BUT we could very well be dreaming about the creation of that machine and coincidentally waking up as we stepped into that machine. if the virtual reality offers no way to tell whether we are in a VR or not, how do we know it is not the case that I proposed previously?
this evil machine is theoretically possible. note that it is a lot more powerful with the matrix machine scene than without the transition between worlds. If the virtual world started abruptedly with the memory of you stepping into the machine, you would probably assume this is the VR world because you stepped into the machine with a certain expectation an assumption for the next world you see to be false, yet when the starting scene is a scene that questions your assumption, would that shake your sense of reality greatly? i have to point out in the previous case where your assumptions weren't challenge, it is equally likely you woked up in the real world just as you stepped into that VR machine, but this coincidence is not considered at all or seriously when there is no evidence how you went into the other world.
the matrix machine in the VR world disguising itself as a means to go into the real world might be just the key to drive anyone who are determined to keep track of what is real insane.
Sunday 24 July 2011
brainstorming bout simulated life and world
Couldn't go to sleep with food still churning in my stomach.
Just had a thought. What does it mean for an author to bring his characters to life? What does it take to make the reader feel like he had immersed into this fictional world that the author is bringing him into?
The character obviously does not exist in our world, it exists in the fictional space of the story whether it is in the book all acted out in the game. The game is trying to take it one more step than reading, that is it is hoping that seeing and hearing and interacting with the character, we would move one more step towards enjoying this make believe.
The gamer knows the voice acting isn't the character's but decides to associate the voice to the character anyway. The graphics of the character is nearing life-like status and it is a matter of time that finally we cannot distinguish a computer graphics actor and a real one. The movement of the character too is also very good nowadays. So visual wise there is no loop-hole whether it is real or not.
It is when one tries to interact with the character that one is reminded that you are not interacting with a real person. What I am getting at is what does one desire from an artificial agent when it comes to intellect. Ever so often I wished artificial agents had thoughts and mental states, anything at all. It just sucks when guards see cell door of a notorious pirate opened and doesn't investigate into it for days and days. The least he can do is to have a purpose. A purpose more than just showing he is there. I wished whatever he said and do was based on world observation, thoughts, purpose and intention.
I am not sure whether these made sense because simple world state change and action is easily scriptable and perhaps that is surely enough. I however wished to ultimately build a world simulation, perhaps a much more simplified version of the world or even an alien world that we could not imagine existing. Then, comes the agents in the world, it'll be fine that i start with creatures with primitive brains but at least they should have them and behave in a more complex and unpredictable based on learning, genetics and internal states. I have no idea how an arbitrary world with artificial life might be interesting as a game, but I am a big fan of simulations.
It might be that complexity and unpredictability makes it easier to believe something is not artificial or dead. After all if an android with AI trying to pass the turing test, the first subtest he has to pass is sophistication. You begin by testing how sophisticated is his thought patterns and behaviors. You ask him about details of his life and ask that he make associations between data in his memory to make a coherent account of his understanding of what he remembers about himself. Unpredictability might be a fog grenade when it tries to fool a human of its true identity but there is something about kinds of unpredictability that makes the difference between fooling or giving away.
There is something about artificial agents in games nowadays that im still unsatisfied with. That is the feeling of meaningful relationship is not there, i am often reminded that their actions are scripted because their mental states that govern their conversation script are so simple. yea i guess thats it, that was what i was trying to get at this whole time. I think it is unavoidable that at the end of a conversation, there must be a cue for you to stop talking to that same person because there is nothing meaningful for you to get out of him. in a story where the objectives are to go on with the story perhaps but in a story where you really want to get to know a person that is really a let down. I have absolutely no idea how to simulate a simple mental model that churns out satisfying small talk to satisfy this urge to interact.
Perhaps even to show that the agents perceive or tries to guess what I have in mind. That is another part of the challenge. What kind of interaction would you need to have the agents try to read into your mind and appreciate your actions as mental model. Perhaps try to second guess your sincerity when you help them, it would make the instances when the character trust your integrity and character even more precious than the current case that the character believes in anything you do or say. This is the kind of unpredictability that makes your desired outcome more worthwhile although no garanteed. It of course brings us back to the question what are the minor give away that you can show that will make them doubt you.
Perfectionist like myself might be disappointed then because it is so hard to get the perfect impression to stay on the artificial character that we would not bother to load and play again to get the perfect response.
I think in narrative games there is really not much of the play in trade offs. There is always not much consequences in your action. To give an example games such as witcher and risen which gives you a choice to choose side does thread you down to slightly different path of the story but the world is still disappointingly unchanged. I don't really perceive the reactions of the people in the story on their thoughts of event changing battles that I took part in. I guess we would like to feel that we made a difference in the world.
I think it should not just flip us to different pages but I think there should be some event chain logic behind the scene that makes little changes to the world through the causal effects. how small action snowball into big changes is an interesting problem. For example how does choosing to help a certain passerby or not could change someone else's life that indirectly benefit you in someway and perhaps hurt you in another. These kind of intricate details does bring the world into life somehow.
I don't believe in the cpu cycle limit consideration when it comes to simulation because the limit is constantly getting increased. Overly simplistic worlds are still not believeable because the details arent taken care of well enough by conventional scripting. I think a general self contained logic of how the world works should be in place. A powerful one that is so that sophisticated behavior can be emergent and not scripted. I think the only way I can try to get away from not killing the computer with too much load is to move away from graphics and do a console based system first or at least no animation. That could be my first attempt at this
Just had a thought. What does it mean for an author to bring his characters to life? What does it take to make the reader feel like he had immersed into this fictional world that the author is bringing him into?
The character obviously does not exist in our world, it exists in the fictional space of the story whether it is in the book all acted out in the game. The game is trying to take it one more step than reading, that is it is hoping that seeing and hearing and interacting with the character, we would move one more step towards enjoying this make believe.
The gamer knows the voice acting isn't the character's but decides to associate the voice to the character anyway. The graphics of the character is nearing life-like status and it is a matter of time that finally we cannot distinguish a computer graphics actor and a real one. The movement of the character too is also very good nowadays. So visual wise there is no loop-hole whether it is real or not.
It is when one tries to interact with the character that one is reminded that you are not interacting with a real person. What I am getting at is what does one desire from an artificial agent when it comes to intellect. Ever so often I wished artificial agents had thoughts and mental states, anything at all. It just sucks when guards see cell door of a notorious pirate opened and doesn't investigate into it for days and days. The least he can do is to have a purpose. A purpose more than just showing he is there. I wished whatever he said and do was based on world observation, thoughts, purpose and intention.
I am not sure whether these made sense because simple world state change and action is easily scriptable and perhaps that is surely enough. I however wished to ultimately build a world simulation, perhaps a much more simplified version of the world or even an alien world that we could not imagine existing. Then, comes the agents in the world, it'll be fine that i start with creatures with primitive brains but at least they should have them and behave in a more complex and unpredictable based on learning, genetics and internal states. I have no idea how an arbitrary world with artificial life might be interesting as a game, but I am a big fan of simulations.
It might be that complexity and unpredictability makes it easier to believe something is not artificial or dead. After all if an android with AI trying to pass the turing test, the first subtest he has to pass is sophistication. You begin by testing how sophisticated is his thought patterns and behaviors. You ask him about details of his life and ask that he make associations between data in his memory to make a coherent account of his understanding of what he remembers about himself. Unpredictability might be a fog grenade when it tries to fool a human of its true identity but there is something about kinds of unpredictability that makes the difference between fooling or giving away.
There is something about artificial agents in games nowadays that im still unsatisfied with. That is the feeling of meaningful relationship is not there, i am often reminded that their actions are scripted because their mental states that govern their conversation script are so simple. yea i guess thats it, that was what i was trying to get at this whole time. I think it is unavoidable that at the end of a conversation, there must be a cue for you to stop talking to that same person because there is nothing meaningful for you to get out of him. in a story where the objectives are to go on with the story perhaps but in a story where you really want to get to know a person that is really a let down. I have absolutely no idea how to simulate a simple mental model that churns out satisfying small talk to satisfy this urge to interact.
Perhaps even to show that the agents perceive or tries to guess what I have in mind. That is another part of the challenge. What kind of interaction would you need to have the agents try to read into your mind and appreciate your actions as mental model. Perhaps try to second guess your sincerity when you help them, it would make the instances when the character trust your integrity and character even more precious than the current case that the character believes in anything you do or say. This is the kind of unpredictability that makes your desired outcome more worthwhile although no garanteed. It of course brings us back to the question what are the minor give away that you can show that will make them doubt you.
Perfectionist like myself might be disappointed then because it is so hard to get the perfect impression to stay on the artificial character that we would not bother to load and play again to get the perfect response.
I think in narrative games there is really not much of the play in trade offs. There is always not much consequences in your action. To give an example games such as witcher and risen which gives you a choice to choose side does thread you down to slightly different path of the story but the world is still disappointingly unchanged. I don't really perceive the reactions of the people in the story on their thoughts of event changing battles that I took part in. I guess we would like to feel that we made a difference in the world.
I think it should not just flip us to different pages but I think there should be some event chain logic behind the scene that makes little changes to the world through the causal effects. how small action snowball into big changes is an interesting problem. For example how does choosing to help a certain passerby or not could change someone else's life that indirectly benefit you in someway and perhaps hurt you in another. These kind of intricate details does bring the world into life somehow.
I don't believe in the cpu cycle limit consideration when it comes to simulation because the limit is constantly getting increased. Overly simplistic worlds are still not believeable because the details arent taken care of well enough by conventional scripting. I think a general self contained logic of how the world works should be in place. A powerful one that is so that sophisticated behavior can be emergent and not scripted. I think the only way I can try to get away from not killing the computer with too much load is to move away from graphics and do a console based system first or at least no animation. That could be my first attempt at this
Friday 15 July 2011
On man's tendencies without God
I was reading an interesting article when I was searching for the most interesting question when it comes to the believers and non-believers divide - can man be good without god?
Of course that is the question that everyone of the two camps had contemplated at one point or another and they arrived on an answer that ultimately divided them into these two respective camps. Yes that is basically my claim for this article.
I think this is the one true question that atheist and the religious ought to debate about and not God's existence since what matters is whether you had been a good person when you're alive and not your afterlife (if you're a christian you would have been judged by then anyway)
Here's the article stating the christian's point of view
http://www.apologeticsguy.com/2011/02/are-you-good-without-god/
From their point of view, we are lost sheeps without a common god. We've seen self righteous evil men claiming that their moral values are acceptable and doing atrocities and they believe these are the works of deviation from god's teaching.
There is another idea that is even more important that the previous. That is the freedom to debate about what is right or wrong gives the possibility for such a mad man to come to his own conclusion about which moral ruler to use. Therefore their idea is to have only god to decide what is right or wrong as it should since he is the wisest.
Lets for discussion's sake suppose that he exists but could not communicate with us directly just like people generally say is the case. He cannot throw down a big book of rules for every situation but only a few general guidelines on how to act in different category of situations. We are then left to interpret which are the perfect ways to handle a problem.
So what happens when two person disagrees? they should consult the wisest few who understood the guidelines best but which to pick if the wisest two disagree and both of them claims that their reasoning is better the the other? They debate of course, the wisest choice if I might be allowed to add. Of course, disagreement among the wisest does not happen very often but we are all human and we are all still not as perfect as god so they do happen and when it does they could maybe seek out for signs from god for answers (i have no idea how that works) but i think it would be a better bet that they figure it out for themselves.
my point for this discussion is that we ultimately have to decide for ourselves what does the bible or the scriptures of authority your religion teaches. even the wisest around does not have full grasp of the text, (if they did, they would have known how to convince the other that his way is the true way).
So the lack of faith in humanities' ability to discern the good from the evil is a problematic one. On one hand we believe that the followers would have the wisdom to follow the teaching of god on the other we refuse to believe that we can be decent people (decently wise in the matters of moral) without the teaching of god.
You might have guessed i am no christian and perhaps i got the part where christians believe we have the wisdom to follow the teaching of god and therefore be good wrong because surely one can only stand on one side, either man have or does not have the wisdom it takes to be a good person at least at the level acceptable to god. By acceptable I mean decently good relative to the rest of our race. This does raise another issue about how good is enough but I'll leave that for later.
Now I shall point out the atheist's view. It is a suspicion but I have a fairly good reasoning behind it. God was conjured as a symbol of goodness and an authority to be feared at one point in time possibly by someone who has no faith in human nature and wisdom for the reasons I mentioned above. And the fear of letting go of god is nothing but our lack of faith in our own race to do good things. Whether the true god exists and observed this event is irrelevant since he did not stop that person, he might have very well approved of his doings but that is not the point.
The point is I am faced with two possibilities. The first, god actually presented himself to some very wise chap hoping that he can comprehend what he has to say about morality and hope that he will pass on the wisdom to others. What the wisdom might be is a point of interest as well. It could be that the wisdom is that we as a race is still to dumb and unenlightened to comprehend what he has to teach, therefore we should just follow simple commandments he gave and improvise when it seems hard to apply them. The followup lessons on how to be good will be imparted to you in your afterlife (ok im not sure about this one but it perhaps serve no purpose at all to be good in your afterlife as I see it) OR the wisdom might be the actual wisdom to be good which has an implication of our ability to attain wisdom.
Second possibility is what I mentioned before. Irregardless of whether god exists or not, some person decided not to trust humanities' judgement on what is right or wrong. Corrections, it should be not to trust most people except him and perhaps a group of self righteous elites. It's definitely the simpler explanation which is the only one that needs no supernatural reasoning which makes it so much more believable. You can't blame some atheist for coming to this conclusion. The rationale for fabricating a god is valid and visible enough to be a big possibility.
All these needless argument about whether the bible is indeed god's teaching. It doesn't matter. What matters is whether each of us turn out to be a good person. I believe it is possible each and every one of us to be good without a god irregardless of whether he exists to watch us turn good or evil. Why is there a need to wage wars in the name of religion when what matters is not whether the teaching of the religion is straight from god's mouth or written by men. why is there a need to condemn those who do not believe in your religion and threaten them with hellfire when all you want is for them to be good and arrive at a good moral standard?
The answer to the question i pose in the very beginning is an important one. Can men be good without god? If yes as I hoped, there is no need for religion, god would be please as human's attain the wisdom to be a good person with enough collaborative efforts. If no as some of the christians believe then there will be no end to the conflict between different religion and evil is definitely here to stay because there will be no trust, no faith in man's ability to attain a good moral standard to live by. Such pessimism.
Of course that is the question that everyone of the two camps had contemplated at one point or another and they arrived on an answer that ultimately divided them into these two respective camps. Yes that is basically my claim for this article.
I think this is the one true question that atheist and the religious ought to debate about and not God's existence since what matters is whether you had been a good person when you're alive and not your afterlife (if you're a christian you would have been judged by then anyway)
Here's the article stating the christian's point of view
http://www.apologeticsguy.com/2011/02/are-you-good-without-god/
From their point of view, we are lost sheeps without a common god. We've seen self righteous evil men claiming that their moral values are acceptable and doing atrocities and they believe these are the works of deviation from god's teaching.
There is another idea that is even more important that the previous. That is the freedom to debate about what is right or wrong gives the possibility for such a mad man to come to his own conclusion about which moral ruler to use. Therefore their idea is to have only god to decide what is right or wrong as it should since he is the wisest.
Lets for discussion's sake suppose that he exists but could not communicate with us directly just like people generally say is the case. He cannot throw down a big book of rules for every situation but only a few general guidelines on how to act in different category of situations. We are then left to interpret which are the perfect ways to handle a problem.
So what happens when two person disagrees? they should consult the wisest few who understood the guidelines best but which to pick if the wisest two disagree and both of them claims that their reasoning is better the the other? They debate of course, the wisest choice if I might be allowed to add. Of course, disagreement among the wisest does not happen very often but we are all human and we are all still not as perfect as god so they do happen and when it does they could maybe seek out for signs from god for answers (i have no idea how that works) but i think it would be a better bet that they figure it out for themselves.
my point for this discussion is that we ultimately have to decide for ourselves what does the bible or the scriptures of authority your religion teaches. even the wisest around does not have full grasp of the text, (if they did, they would have known how to convince the other that his way is the true way).
So the lack of faith in humanities' ability to discern the good from the evil is a problematic one. On one hand we believe that the followers would have the wisdom to follow the teaching of god on the other we refuse to believe that we can be decent people (decently wise in the matters of moral) without the teaching of god.
You might have guessed i am no christian and perhaps i got the part where christians believe we have the wisdom to follow the teaching of god and therefore be good wrong because surely one can only stand on one side, either man have or does not have the wisdom it takes to be a good person at least at the level acceptable to god. By acceptable I mean decently good relative to the rest of our race. This does raise another issue about how good is enough but I'll leave that for later.
Now I shall point out the atheist's view. It is a suspicion but I have a fairly good reasoning behind it. God was conjured as a symbol of goodness and an authority to be feared at one point in time possibly by someone who has no faith in human nature and wisdom for the reasons I mentioned above. And the fear of letting go of god is nothing but our lack of faith in our own race to do good things. Whether the true god exists and observed this event is irrelevant since he did not stop that person, he might have very well approved of his doings but that is not the point.
The point is I am faced with two possibilities. The first, god actually presented himself to some very wise chap hoping that he can comprehend what he has to say about morality and hope that he will pass on the wisdom to others. What the wisdom might be is a point of interest as well. It could be that the wisdom is that we as a race is still to dumb and unenlightened to comprehend what he has to teach, therefore we should just follow simple commandments he gave and improvise when it seems hard to apply them. The followup lessons on how to be good will be imparted to you in your afterlife (ok im not sure about this one but it perhaps serve no purpose at all to be good in your afterlife as I see it) OR the wisdom might be the actual wisdom to be good which has an implication of our ability to attain wisdom.
Second possibility is what I mentioned before. Irregardless of whether god exists or not, some person decided not to trust humanities' judgement on what is right or wrong. Corrections, it should be not to trust most people except him and perhaps a group of self righteous elites. It's definitely the simpler explanation which is the only one that needs no supernatural reasoning which makes it so much more believable. You can't blame some atheist for coming to this conclusion. The rationale for fabricating a god is valid and visible enough to be a big possibility.
All these needless argument about whether the bible is indeed god's teaching. It doesn't matter. What matters is whether each of us turn out to be a good person. I believe it is possible each and every one of us to be good without a god irregardless of whether he exists to watch us turn good or evil. Why is there a need to wage wars in the name of religion when what matters is not whether the teaching of the religion is straight from god's mouth or written by men. why is there a need to condemn those who do not believe in your religion and threaten them with hellfire when all you want is for them to be good and arrive at a good moral standard?
The answer to the question i pose in the very beginning is an important one. Can men be good without god? If yes as I hoped, there is no need for religion, god would be please as human's attain the wisdom to be a good person with enough collaborative efforts. If no as some of the christians believe then there will be no end to the conflict between different religion and evil is definitely here to stay because there will be no trust, no faith in man's ability to attain a good moral standard to live by. Such pessimism.
Thursday 21 April 2011
The mindless machines at the mrt platform
i often go on and on about how the aunties and uncles of singapore purposely, conveniently and skillfully "boxed" me out of the "have a chance to get inside the mrt" zone. i'll mumble to myself, "does it kill you if you din get into the mrt before me?" and then there is "omg i obvious came before you, what makes you think you, who had came from a later train, has the right to cut right in front of me? am i really such a sucker?"
These thoughts that the person next to you just took advantage of you because you're a sucker isn't foreign to commuters especially when you are a carebear and a gracious sucker like me who refuse to stoop to their level of uncouthness. You start to wonder if the education that the older generation of singaporeans failed at its very core as it produced such selfish behavior that even the younger bunch might shake their heads to. You even start to wonder how these older generations have the nerve to shake their heads at the generation Y people when they are no saints themselves. Obviously such behaviors are not restricted to uncles and aunties, people of all types have showed their "style" of inconsideration and you just think they are just being an extraordinary bastard.
All these unhappiness stems from one thing, the perception that that person that just took advantage of you did it delibrately after thorough thought of the morality of the issue at hand. The perception that the person ought to think about what he had just done and more importantly and subtly, he ought to have thought for YOUR convenience and well being when he did that. "what an asshole" is the usual reaction from you.
Someone else in their defence replies, "well they just don't give a damn about anything and definitely not about you. They din even give it a second thought when they decided to cut in front and elbow you to the back. Actually he din give it any thought at all!". we'll reply, "How is that a defence?! that makes him a bigger asshole". Doesn't it?
What if i tell you these selfish agents pushing their way to the very front of the queue to take the mrt is actually machines employing learning algorithm evolving them to be the perfect queue cutter and winner in the bid to get on the train. Their brains are just wired through the years to be subconsciously selfish. They dont give a damn about you or anyone because they have become just a machine made to ensure they get a place in the mrt at all cost. Our unhappiness suddenly falls dramatically. "It can't be helped" we maintained "if they were just machines that couldnt have consciousness to judge their own actions."
I argue that the people at the mrt platform and whoever had pissed you off through their inconsiderate behaviors are exactly those machines. I argue that most of what people do in their selfishness are done at a subconscious level. It is too painful to weigh every single mundane decision even for the intellectuals and definitely for normal people like you and i. In fact there is nothing but pain in the act of judging whether one action is selfish or not because when you perceived that selfishness, especially when it disadvantages you, you feel like you've lost something at his advantage.
It becomes a robbery of your well being whether it is something as small as blocking your way by standing on the right side of the elevator or as big as somebody managing to make your life miserable doing things that made him look good at work. On the flip side, there is no particular benefit to anyone most of the time when you go way out of your way to provide convenience for someone else. most of the time there is no telling your good will and your graciousness are even perceived by the person benefiting from it because it might be something so insignificant to them that they just took it for granted and don't care. So you can't blame them for not actively taking the stance of a carebear. Life just didn't require or have much of a use for such behavior in your area in this aspect of your life.
It becomes a robbery of your well being whether it is something as small as blocking your way by standing on the right side of the elevator or as big as somebody managing to make your life miserable doing things that made him look good at work. On the flip side, there is no particular benefit to anyone most of the time when you go way out of your way to provide convenience for someone else. most of the time there is no telling your good will and your graciousness are even perceived by the person benefiting from it because it might be something so insignificant to them that they just took it for granted and don't care. So you can't blame them for not actively taking the stance of a carebear. Life just didn't require or have much of a use for such behavior in your area in this aspect of your life.
life is just full of suffering and injustice when we judge the person that has disadvantaged you, life is surreal when you stop wanting others to be ethical creatures up till the smallest detail and just accept them as mindless machines. i stopped getting pissed by singaporean aunties and uncles cutting in front of me when waiting for the mrt and cursing on in my head about how they are selfish and beyond hope. They are but machines going about their everyday business of cutting in front of suckers like me who thinks graciousness gets him anything more than a self crowned status of higher morality and suffering.
If I may be allowed to venture to add, the requirements of the environment had evolved these selfish behaviors in all of us subconsciously. when everyday is a "pack us like sardine" day on the mrt platform, if everyday was a "the most wayang gets the most credit" day, then there will be people wired to succeed in that most unglamorous way (at least you think so). stop complaining at the inevitable. Dont try to even ask yourself the question of whether an action is selfish/considerate/fair or not because most of the time nobody gives a damn anyway. Just mindlessly go about the most painful part of your day and let those machines do their thing, just beware that you don't become one of them.
If I may be allowed to venture to add, the requirements of the environment had evolved these selfish behaviors in all of us subconsciously. when everyday is a "pack us like sardine" day on the mrt platform, if everyday was a "the most wayang gets the most credit" day, then there will be people wired to succeed in that most unglamorous way (at least you think so). stop complaining at the inevitable. Dont try to even ask yourself the question of whether an action is selfish/considerate/fair or not because most of the time nobody gives a damn anyway. Just mindlessly go about the most painful part of your day and let those machines do their thing, just beware that you don't become one of them.
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